Name: Nicole Britton
City: San Diego
Age: 17 and ¾
My descent into madness started in May 2018 when an email appeared in my inbox touting a unique program called the Social Fabric Initiative. Considering that: a.) I didn’t have a job for the summer, and b.) I was frustrated that I could read about global issues but couldn’t help out meaningfully without donating money or supplies...SFI seemed like the perfect opportunity for me.
After bonding over various icebreakers during the initial meeting (in which I learned that people really bond over speed-sung pop songs from the 2000’s), I got to speed-date multiple organizations. I filled out an interest card that would have some bearing on what Thread I would be in. (A Thread is a small group of 3-5 high school Volunteers, two college Interns, and one Mentor from a local non-profit working together on a community change project.) After a few days, my assignment came in: LGBTQ+ Education and Advocacy. Although it wasn’t my top choice, it was a Thread that I was personally connected to. Some of my closest friends and family members are proud members of this community - a community, as I would soon learn, that has been an integral part of San Diego since World War II. For the next two weeks, my Thread and I debated about what we should do to raise awareness and acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community. We finally decided on an idea so fantastically brilliant and ambitious we had to go with it: an all-inclusive Fashion Show!!
Fast forward about six weeks, and I have to admit: event planning is HARD!
Beyond the fact that we only had four weeks to get the show on the road, we also had to educate ourselves on the rich history of San Diego’s LGBTQ+ community, reserve an adequate venue, and find the right speakers and models - all at the same time! I honestly never thought I’d be in this position - not because I can usually be found holed up in my house keeping the laundry from reaching Mt. Everest levels while working on my college applications and reading amazing books on my Dad’s oversized couch, but because I generally dislike large crowds and group projects. As you can probably tell, this was going to be a bit of a dive out of my comfort zone as I have never attempted anything like this before - but I was ready for it!!
All of the Volunteers in the Thread took a position and I was in charge of organizing the models and speakers. During our fourth meeting, some of the challenges began. Let me give you two important pieces of advice about event planning:
I have to say that our project and SFI has taught me some important skills that I want to bring with me to college next year. One such skill is networking, or connecting with other people to form meaningful relationships. These relationships can help you start up a social justice project centered around a community, just like we did.
Along with the fact that I have managed to complete a group project and have enjoyed getting to know everybody that I’ve worked with over the past few months, I hope that our project with SFI continues forward in educating the general public about the LGBTQ+ community and its wonders, and that the fashion show can make a comeback next year!